Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Is this what labor is like?

As you can see from the ticker, we are VERY due for our referral, and in another day we will be overdue. No inducing labor, I'm afraid. We just have to wait, for the slow machine of government (China) to creak to life and make another batch of new families. (Pardon the mixed metaphors)

Rumors are that packages have left the CCAA in Beijing, as of Monday. But there are lots of things that Beijing might be mailing to adoption agencies across the world. There can be LOA's (Letters of Approval), which are the documents that families adopting special needs children wait for, and that signal the CCAA's approval of a family's choice of a special chosen child.

There are TA's (Travel Approvals), which are the documents that allow families who have already received referrals to obtain the Visas needed to visit China to adopt their children. Once you receive a TA, you can book your flights.

And there are the referral packets, which are those magic missives that can finally bring the waiting (and laboring) to a close. Pictures, a profile, and a medical report. And a new future, for the waiting families and for their children.

Ah, the benefits of being in a post-vacation, philosophical mood. Actually, I am sick of waiting and want to get on with it!

5 comments:

Courtney said...

I'm praying that you'll get your referral today!!!!!!!!!!!!
Keep us posted!!!

Courtney said...

Did you get your referral?!

Unknown said...

Unfortunately not Courtney. To be honest, aside from saying that there appears to have been a collosal mistake with our documents, we're not quite sure why we haven't seen it.

We're in touch with our agency and I wish that I could report that things were becoming clearer to us, but they're not. The consensus best guess is that we have a few more months of waiting.

Sorry to leave you hanging, but we're working hard to sort out what happened, to manage our feelings of sadness and disappointment, and chart some next steps.

We'll add a post as soon as we can.

John McCollum said...

Hey, guys. I'm a friend of Maria's. I'm also an adoptive parent (China, Korea, Vietnam). Your situation must be infuriating -- I'm praying that it will be resolved SOON.

Dave & Kris said...

Thanks for your thoughts and prayers, John. Maria told us about the wonderful work you do. We need all the support we can get!